Big decisions

The conversations everyone avoids, scripted with care: driving, moving, money and care, with words that protect the relationship.

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The first hard conversation

Without taking away their independence.

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Decode the medical information

Plain language, real questions.

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Get your siblings to help

Stop being the default.

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Run a family meeting

Decisions, not a fight.

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Compare the care options

Home help, day programs, assisted living.

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Talking with memory loss

Enter their reality.

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The last chapter

Conversations you do not want to have.

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  • Decode the medical information
  • Get your siblings to help
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  • Compare the care options
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Common questions

How do I talk to my parent about stopping driving?
Carefully and early. The driving talk prompt scripts the conversation, the alternatives to offer and what to do if they refuse.
What senior living options exist?
The care options prompt compares in-home care, assisted living and memory care against your parent's needs, budget and wishes.

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