Attachment & trauma

Connection before correction. These prompts help you respond to behaviors that come from before you, with strategies that build trust.

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First days with a new placement

Slow, calm, predictable.

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This prompt is part of membership. Members read it in full and copy it straight into ChatGPT, Claude or Gemini.

Build attachment

Connection before correction.

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This prompt is part of membership. Members read it in full and copy it straight into ChatGPT, Claude or Gemini.

Respond to trauma-driven behavior

Different rules apply.

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This prompt is part of membership. Members read it in full and copy it straight into ChatGPT, Claude or Gemini.

Support identity and heritage

Especially in a transracial family.

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Common questions

How long does attachment take after adoption?
Months to years, and it is not linear. The attachment prompt gives you daily connection practices matched to your child's age and history.
What is a trauma-informed response?
Addressing the fear under the behavior instead of the behavior itself. The response prompt scripts what to say in the hard moments.

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